Maybe the Anger, Sadness, Regret Are Not Yours

Break free of quantum entanglements.

 

For years, even after much help, I still harbored feelings of regret over the breakup of my first marriage.  I finally realized that it wasn’t my regret.  As soon as I truly internalized that the regret lifted.

You think I would have learned.  Just recently, I’ve realized that the negative energies that would sometimes find me with regards to an extreme betrayal were not mine at all.  I don’t understand why I didn’t fully consider looking at what I was experiencing through the lens of quantum entanglement.  I guess I hadn’t suffered enough.  Maybe it was because I needed to write this blog. 

In 1993, while on my MSW, I focused on the still under recognized phenomena of trauma bonding. Researchers in the domestic violence field before me figured out that victims of interpersonal violence acted like the hostages in a bank robbery who bonded to their captors and from this, the Stockholm syndrome was named. Trauma bonding is a better descriptor of what occurs in these situations. In 1994, I wrote a treatment protocol to resolve these bonds that has helped thousands of people. It wasn’t until 2019 that I understood the deeper role of quantum entanglement in these bonds. But one can be the ‘victim’ of quantum entanglement without trauma bonding. In a trauma bond, a person wants to remain connected to the abuser. Those entangled in a connection that no longer serves them do not want to continue in the bond.

I reviewed many explanations of how quantum entanglement occurs that promised to be simple to understand, but they didn’t seem very simple to me! While I can’t explain the basic mechanics as to why it occurs, I grasp the basic outcome of quantum entanglement, which is this:

Quantum entanglement is a physical phenomenon that occurs when pairs or groups of particles are generated, interact, or share spatial proximity in ways such that the quantum state of each particle cannot be described independently of the state of the others, even when the particles are separated by a large distance.  Wikipedia

In quantum physics, entangled particles remain connected so that actions performed on one affect the other, even when separated by great distances. The phenomenon so riled Albert Einstein he called it "spooky action at a distance." Livescience.com

Interacting with others creates quantum entanglement. All of the good and bad times experienced with another person are interactions and shared spatial proximity that create a bond that manifests through time and space. When there are many bad times, or any experience that was overwhelming, the entanglement is also layered with the mechanics of trauma, making it harder to see and harder to dissolve.

 No need to despair, as with work, anything is possible. 

 I will provide you the protocol for dissolving these oppressive bonds when you sign up for my blog. Sign up here

 Here’s to freedom….

 Pura Vida,

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Anyone capable of learning is a candidate for training in Traditional Trauma Resolution. I will hold both a special online training and retreat in Costa Rica for those who would like to increase their artistic capacity and who are ready for the life-changing experience of resolving their trauma.  The training info is here!    Here is more information about Traditional Trauma Resolution.

 

 

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